I have said several times I am not happy with the drama in my current band, that there is too much arguing and that people need to be a little bit more respectful, especially towards me. Last night not only did the guitarist start drama again and got all upset and pissed over something I said, which was not meant to be mean, he took it the wrong way and acted like a 10 year-old and did not want to hear what I had to said -about the fact that the audience did not like the mix mix, dammit. The drummer then refused to listen and gave me a cold shoulder when I asked him if he understood what I was trying to say about the mix and that the guitarist is over-reacting. On top of that the singer had a stupid t-shirt that read "I'm with stupid" with an arrow to his left. Yes, I was on the left In attendance were my wife, my kids, my mother-in-law, my step-son and 4 nephews. Our set list is the same exact set list as last week, plus 4 songs, minus 3 others. We had to hire a guy to come and play guitar between sets. They're not adding songs fast enough. I keep telling them that it is possible to add 5 songs a week, they don't want to hear it, their excuse is that it's easy for me because I play an easy instrument. The singer can barely sing, the guitarist is ok, but think he's Slash and the drummer, who is otherwise the nicest dude, is very sloppy. I am not the best bassist, but I progress by challenging myself a lot, forcing myself to learn songs and doing a lot of exercises, up to 2 hours a day. Time to move? OP edit: Sorry, David, I will be careful next time. So, no, I was not called "stupid", but basically my sexual preference was questioned in a rude manner and the shirt was not kid friendly at all.