single for the first time in 11 months

Does anyone here believe in "Name-ology". That's the unofficial term for the phenomenon where your name plays a big part in determining your personality.

Every "Jasmine" I've ever met is fiercly bad tempered and very unreasonable. Am I in the ballpark Kirbs? Of course I'm only generalising ........

 

girls don't like boys girls like cars and money.

 

I have hade to get used to being single it kind of goes with what i do. You do get use to being on your own but "everybody should have somebody sometimes". Keep Rockin all you single people

 

Hey, I've been single for 19 years and 3 weeks; no regrets either.

Maybe in the next year or two I'll be "attached", (if a certain Victoria Silvstedt pops up for me).

 

Damn dude...screw her,any woman complaining because you're not buying her stuff needs to be kicked to the curb.

Enjoy the single life

 

Maybe it's all for the best Kirbs. From what you've said, it doesn't sound like she was the right one for you.
I've been around for a while and have seen many relationships bite the dust; and you know, when the female was asked "why did you stay so long when you knew that there were things about ( name ) that you didn't like from the start?" their answer is always "I THOUGHT THAT I COULD CHANGE HIM."

So, if you are thinking of starting a new relationship with someone else, I'd recommend being very up front and honest with them about the things in your life that are non negotiable and essential to you ( Basses, bands ) and then you'll have a much happier personal life and partner from word go.
Wouldn't it be nice to find a girl who sings, or plays an instrument
That's been the case with me.
But she still reckons I'm a Bassmaniac.

 

ok ok this is just not fair, first in this thread i have some girl turn me down for being too young, and too far away but shh, then the guy who is ment to be down is talking about a girl, who is attractive, and likes music enough to play an instrument, i mean, god i hate ireland, there are NO music chicks here

Edit: ok we have the corrs but they are so last millenium

 

<BR><BR>Just tell her. Straight out. Believe me that the abolutely best way to deal with this type of situation is to simply and honestly tell her what you want/feel. Especially if she tends to react as you have described.
Try not to get involved in recriminations or histrionics. Definitely don't end up not telling her what you feel because you don't want to hurt her feelings or something.
Then go home and play your (extremely sweet-looking) new TRB.

 

I think she was referring to your bank account.

 

It seems like everybody wants a piece of the Kirby pie.
As for your ex, just tell her that there is plenty of Kirbs to go around. This should either:
a) get rid of her, without telling her you don't like her (although she may be hurt)
b) open up a lot of possibilities.

You are a winner.

 

That sucks... a lot...

The Bottom ________ is that 'girls' suck, you are never right, you are always wrong... There is no middle ground. Its the Wrong opinion and Her opinion.

Well, Maybe you shouldnt have a 'serious' relationship for awhile, you sound like you really liked her.

Things like this have happend to me many times, but not after a long relationship, that just plain sucks.

 

Why worry about sparing her feelings? Where were her worries for yours when she decided to leave? THE ONLY reason she is back is because, you let her go and didn't chase after her, like she expected you to. Had you begged, pleaded, or otherwise went out of your way to try to keep it together, she wouldn't of given you the time of day. As a matter of fact, I was actually predicting she would do this, since you kept a cool, and civil head about the situation.

Just be honest, and THANK her for making you realize how bunk that relationship was.

 

Sorry Kirbs I forgot to warn you about that. It always happens.

There's 2 ways to handle it.

1/ make the groud rules clearer and see if she still wants to get back together.

2/ remind her who dumped who and tell her to get lost.

In reality it usually ends up being a combination of both.

Oh here's another thing I should warn you about. If you decide not to get back together, she will probably want to remain friends. Start thinking about how you're gonna react to that one.

 

That pretty much never works either. Enjoy your freedom man!

 

SOOO true ...

A few years ago i was in a relationship that was pretty useless, but i never really told her how i felt....ah well..

Anyway ....this chick started the ol' "i think we should break up" routine, thinking that i was going to be distraught. And my reaction was pretty much "YAAY "...

The second she saw that i was stoked about it, she wanted to get back together, giveing me countless lines of "i didnt really mean it ...blah blah"

Chicks are weird man ........Enjoy your freedom, going out to clubs and pubs with the boys is MUCH funner when your single, than it is when you have the baggage of a relationship.

But definitely dont go jumping into anything to fast ......try a few out before you buy one