So, we signed on to play this show in Tulsa, OK (we all live in Moore, 2hrs south). Then during some crazy turn of events the show got rescheduled and we thought we told the promoter that the new date wasn't going to work for us and thus asked for us to be dropped from the ticket when she announced the new date and venue. fast forward 3 weeks. we see a picture on facebook from the promoter of a local paper. The headline? "Moore's Lakeside Manor to support....blah blah blah" Naturally we are a little miffed, and now double booked. suggestions as to how we handle this and not come off as unprofessional d-bags?