Put simply, how much do you perform, move about , entertain while playing ? Our band , Me , drummer, guitarist and singer often attend local open jam nights at a really good spot in town. It usually rammed full and the host makes sure everyone gets time on stage. There's this one other band that go up and the bass player is the singer / frontman, he's got some real stage presence, very confident and great to watch, he looks you right in the eye, almost staring you down, points the headstock at the crowd like a weapon and is very animated in his movements. Then there is us, I think from the crowds perspective in comparison we must look like statues, apart from some foot tapping and maybe a bit of head nodding there is not much going on. Personally I'm not confident enough to have a 'showman persona' on stage and then be normal off stage. How about you ?