I took some time and thought long and hard about some suggestions from this site and it's starting to work out. Last weekend I purchased a new basic drum set and posted an ad for a drummer and I've got one that is willing to jam at my home. I also now have a guitarist that is willing to come over as well. No more driving around and feeling pressure perform and I'm the one picking the material I want to thank everyone for helping me here...If anyone has any suggestions or insight into starting there own band or has started there own band I would like to hear about it. The drum set is a basic set with just a ride and high hat and I'm hoping that it will be ok for doing basic tunes.