Wife and I are having trouble making ends meet. Those who are married know how this can be tough to figure out. Where to save a few bucks, what to do about getting through the bills, etc. Tough on a relationship, too. Band is re-gearing trying to find the right replacement drummer, trying to replace the gear (subs, lights, some electronics, etc) that the last drummer provided, trying to accommodate all bandmembers etc. is getting to me. Job is going crazy, Ive got plenty to do but Im being cross trained to take on additional responsibility (I dont mind the work). The problem is that Im willing to work overtime to avoid getting behind, but they dont want to pay it. No OT allowed. My whole life is spent trying to stuff 10 pounds of shiite into a 5 pound bag. Just venting and if anyone has advice and perspective, thats cool.