i don't like playing solos. is that weird? everyone else in the band takes solos (a lot of them - we kinda border on weird jamband vibe), and there are some songs that feature solos from everyone. so of course, they want me to take a solo. but i've never been a solo player. i hated taking solos when i played drums, too. it kinda gets annoying when i tell everyone days and weeks in advance, "don't look at me for a solo during our set, i don't want to take one." Yet still, onstage, everyone is looking at me and i have to shake my head. to me, it just looks unprofessional when it happens on stage. i dunno, i think i know what role i want to play as a bass player in the band, and solo-taker isn't part of it. again, is that weird? should i suck it up and solo?