How many, especially in cover bands, seem like they are the only one in the band someone approaches for requests? Of course they always approach me during a song, or right before one begins... We try to be friendly and approachable, but for some reason I'm the "go to guy." I've played guitar in other bands and it doesn't seem to happen as much then, but I noticed them going to the bass player. I've tried everything from laying a pen and paper by the tip jar to just asking them to come back after the sing, but they just stand there and get louder. My favorite times are when they use my mic stand to keep from falling and hit me in the face, or when they just fall onto the stage... fun times for sure... Usually even if I hear the request, I forget it by the end of the song. Oh yea, when I tell them we don't know that, I get to engage in a wonderful discussion of "Sure you do, you can do it!"