As the title suggests, I'm the only one in my current jazz band who's married and owns a house (well, mortgage at least). I sometimes feel that some of the other (younger) guys treat me slightly differently because of this. The simple fact is that after a gig or rehearsal, when the others want to hang out 'til the early hours, I'd rather go home to a warm bed with my missus. While I will hang out for a quick drink or chat (very enjoyable end to the evening) I gave up the all-night partying years ago. None of the others have said anything, but I've sometimes got the feeling that one or two of them think I'm a bit antisocial. Anyone else experienced this?