To begin with I have not been a musician for a long time, well at least I have not been playing with a band only about a year. So me and a really good friend started a band some time ago, mostly my friend just told me he want to be his bass player. We found a drummer and thought all was going to be well, but now it seems so skrewed up. Its like pulling teeth to make songs. When its just myself and guitar and vox its fun as hell. As soon as the drummer comes all the fun leaves. What the hell? We all get along, but the drummer is coming from someplace else musically. He wants to get over technical with the drum lines, but tells us we need to make the songs more straight forward, he says he's happy playing in the band and yet the practices are really nerve racking. I honestly don't see it working out, I don't think we can work around it. The songs are not coming together, its not fun to practice and my friend and I feel like we have to "write" for the drummer. We should have been playing out months ago and yet here we are. So thats my sob story. Hate to dump the guy, but goddamn I wanna play and have some fun. You guys have trouble finding the right drummer too?