I responded to a CL ad for a vocalist in a cover bar band with gigs coming up. Looks pretty good. Then the guy said "my wife the keyboard player and other vocalist..." I quickly flashed to all the TB threads with horror stories of bands with couples of varying variety. I have never actually experienced any of that first hand and these folks seem sane so far in their emails. Perhaps i should just check it out and find out on my own? Could it be that bad?!