Disclaimer:NO POLITICAL INTENT I realize this can be a touchy subject that could easily be taken down a political road. If we can, let's not take it there. And no, this story isn't about me. A close friend of mine got married about a year ago. Previously he had been in a long distance relationship with this girl for about 4 months. She moved from Florida to Idaho with her 5 year old son, they married, (courthouse, no ceremony) and just bought a house a month ago. They both work 60+ hours a week, but the husbands work schedule is increasing, which would mean daycare 7 days a week for the child. He is a veteran and still works for the military, and does very well financially. A couple days ago, I'm informed (from an inside reliable source) she's quitting her job, and this month plans to become a surrogate. She has expressed multiple times that she wants to have a baby, (with him), but he wanted to wait two years to get settled. (House, jobs, etc.) Maybe I'm old fashioned, but to me, as a man, husband, and father, I would find this unbelievably insulting, disrespectful, inconsiderate, I could on. I don't know how he feels about this, it's an odd situation and REALLY not my place to ask. I just don't even know what to think.