I met this girl last week and I was attracted to her at first sight. I've been talking to her a little and she seems sweet, has a nice smile, and is interested in me from what I can tell. Tonight we went to a mutual friend's house and watched a movie. We sat next to each other and over the course of the movie I put my arm around her. At scary/gory portions she cringed and closed her eyes. Was I supposed to condole her? I didn't, I was too shy After the movie was over, we both left and I told her goodnight in the parking lot. Nothing else. She seemed aloof and dissatisfied. Did I botch things completely, or was she just being shy like I was and unsure of what to say? *Disclaimer-normally I'm a very shy, quiet person and I don't do well at all with girls. This is only the tenth one or so that I've had some success with (just one girlfriend, shhhh ). Should I try and be more dominant/outgoing, even though it's directly opposite to my natural behavior? Also, she is shy.