I just quit my band. Long story short, the rythm guitarist and I could not see eye to eye on an upcoming performance. I said we were not ready, he doesnt even have his parts right. I don't have the bass parts right. So we talked about it, and I thought we decided to call the gig off. He called today, and after a few conversations about rehearsing (I told him I was not going to tonite to spend time with my family, my daughters only 3 weeks old!) He tells me that he's ready to play and the parts are "close enough". My argument is that the band is not ready and that close enough is not good enough. I basically refused to play when I knew it would be sub-par. The lead player quit with me basically, and the drumer quit after some remarks from the rythm guitarist. We plan on the three of us continuing playing togother. Did I make the right call? Should I have given in and said "Yes I'll play like crap"?