1. A bellydancer girlfriend handing me a doumbek (Arab drum) when I was 20. Suddenly I *got* rhythm and how the bass functions.
2. A month or so later I told my guitar teacher that I was thinking about playing bass. He said "Great! I need a bass player and you'll pick it up quick. Let's go down to Jensen Music and you can get a bass". And he drove me there. Within 2 weeks I was playing in 2 bands...
3. Committing to fretless. Getting my Zon helped but it was really going to fretless that was life changing, not the instrument.
4. Seeing Tower of Power live. Rocco just rethreaded my head.
5. Giving up slap. I had spent a lot of time developing slap technique, and I could imitate a great bass player pretty well (that is, flashy and with groove) but I overdeveloped technique and underdeveloped musical understanding.
6. Victor Wooten's Bass Nature Camp. I was returning to bass after 15 years away (raising family, career, etc.). I barely knew who Victor was. I was going because Chuck Rainey was on staff. I got so much great musical inspiration, and realized just how much my "fear of playing a wrong note" was holding me back.