So I've been playing for almost 20 years, and never got to be in "the" big band in the area. The two bands that almost made it seemed to fall apart a month after I joined them. I joined a new band last september. Great guitar player, drummers ok, decent keyboard player. All great guys, became friends fast... We've played about 10 gigs and I realize that it's really not going to go anywhere. There's just no "energy " onstage, but it's fun. Last week, a former drummer calls me up and tells me his bands bass player just walked out, and asked if I want to stop out this week. SO I go out, not expecting much, and it just totally floored me. Gtr, bass, drums, keyboards, and a horn section! Kinda funky R & B ish. All great musicians. Just rocked hard big time!The singer tells me all the gigs he has "lined up" as soon as they're ready to play out. But I felt no "friendship" with any of the guys. So what now?! DO I try and juggle 2 bands? Give the first band a little more time? Or just go with the second band?