So I went to my guitar players house last night for drinks, things went really bad. Here is the story the best i remember it: It starts getting ugly when he states he is the band leader. I said no your not, a band leader is appointed by the band, if you want to be the band leader put it up for a vote.(we don't want a band leader by the way) Then he goes on to say our band name is XXXXXXX. I say no it isn't we have several names to chose from and it needs to go to a vote, he replies with no our name is xxxxxxx. Then he goes on to tell me a need to play a short scale bass because I am short, I rely with *** your not going to tell me what type of bass I play. Next was the ragging on my Sansamp bass driver, which is no big deal I just bought a new HyDrive 410 and I don't think I want to use the bass driver anymore anyway. Next was the fact that I have messed up some of the songs the last couple of weeks(which is true) My reply to this was I know, I have been working on our recordings to much and it has interfered with practice time, I work 7 days a week remember? I'm not going to work on them like that anymore and put more time into practice, if we want good recordings we will bring in someone to do it. He says I knew it, you don't take constructive criticism, to which I reply, sure I do, but do you realize you have been on me for 2 hours about all this stuff, at this point it is not criticism it is ragging! Really for 2 hours I listened to him bitch about this and that I couldn't take it anymore, so i get up to leave and he said if you leave Im out, to which I reply, I don't take threats well, and walk out the door. This is like the third time he has threatened to quit, the drama is to much, and the abrasive attitude is getting old. Did I mention he is my best friend? What to do?