I usually ask my wife for bass or music related stuff. Birthday came up, "what should I get you?". I asked for a $90 set of tuners to help finish my bass project. She said no, so I bought them and told her not to bother. Headphones? Nope. Bought those too. Christmas is coming up. "What should I get you?". I could do with a few pedals or CDs. Nope and nope. Guess what's on my shopping list? Nevermind that she gets what she asks for come the holidays or a birthday... Is this just my experience?