I'm looking for/starting a band since I recently moved and it got me wondering about this. For the bands you've been in (that you really liked) did you feel it right away? Did it take time for you to find that the band was working well? Did you click with the music/other players right away only to have a falling out later? The last band I was in that I really liked, it took some time to get musically good. I felt like I taught the other members more than I was learning from them. However, we all became good friends. Later on, I had a jazz/fusion gig for a while and I really liked how I was the one getting schooled but of course the shows were never quite as packed and I felt more like co-workers with the guys What are your experiences?