To get more gigs we are trying to befriend other local bands. We go see them and visa-versa. Occassinally some other band members will show up to our gig that have been gigging longer and are very good musicians. Now it doesn't bother me if they are guitarists, drummers, singers, keys, etc...but if I know there's a bassist in the crowd I tend to tense up. Surely he is sizing me up, so I tend to either overplay or try things I shouldn't try. I would consider myself a solid intermediate bass player, certainly no pro. It's the same stupid feeling I had during Little League try-outs decades ago. Trying too hard. Any suggestions?