I am a Christian Bassist looking for a good band to play in. I have 2 choices. The first is a Christian band that has been around for about 3 years. They have a couple cd's, and have toured. MTV has also used their music. I am auditioning against a few other people. They have practice space and plenty of gear and PA. The other band is not a Christian band, but is not vulgar lyrically. This band's current members are friends I've known a while. They also have good equipment, but don't have such a reputation. The first band, I am competing against others, but the second band is "take it if you want it." So which band to I choos. I will obviously audition for the first band, and if I don't get it, I will go with the other band. But if I get the first one, what do I do? I am getting married soon, and if I have to be gone a lot, my wife won't like it. I'm really kinda torn. So help me out here! PLEASE!! Thank you.