Ok, so until a while ago I was a bit egocentric. I wanted to sing for my band, if not lead then at least backups. Mainly because nobody I know around me really appreciates bass the way I do. But I'm getting pretty good at bass now and I decided that for one gig I was gonna not do vocals and get a bit technical with my basslines, altering bits and peices, doing fills etc. It was my best gig, people where asking me how I got good (im nothing special but this felt good) and I was playing really fast with my fingers and everything, which i dont generally do. We played Ytse Jam by dream theatre (which we normally dont do because I havent really been good enough to do it live) and it went off. I did the bass solo perfectly, I was very happy. And thats why I don't want to sing anymore, I'm getting good enough to steal a lil' bit of spotlite without needing to sing, like my guitarist and drummer.