During Memorial Day I was grilling for my fiancé and kids. I am in my zone flipping burgers smelling that charcoal and I'm looking around the park. I look around and see all these other family's BBQing. All different cultures, Hispanic, Indian, Asian, black people, white people are all in the same formation. All of us men surround the grill no matter what language we speak or what we grill. My fiancé asks why as men we do this why we all surround the grill. I couldn't answer maybe just in our DNA no matter what part of the world were from. Does anyone know why we do this?