So I'm in a band I'm slightly unhappy with. They're great guys, and reasonable musicians, but I feel like they shouldn't even be in a band right now. This is because they can't really commit to any practice time or rehearsals. We've had to cancel rehearsals two weeks in a row. The guitarist just had his first kid, and the singer just got engaged, so the time they can spend on band related stuff has really dwindled. We were supposed to be gigging a MONTH ago, and the drummer and I are ready, but they just aren't, and probably never will be. So the drummer and I have started a side project, with me playing guitar and bass, him drumming, and sharing writing and vocal duties. I've written a good 5 songs, he's written about 3, and here's where the problem lies. With my regular band, the guitarist will ask if we've written anything, and I usually don't share the ideas I come up with with the drummer, as I know that they won't go anywhere because of the aforementioned noncommitted nature of the guitarist and drummer. Am I being an ass?