Hi everyone : ) This is my first post here and i would really appreciate any and all opinions. I have been playing for a singer/songwriter for about a year now. We started out as being good friends. She had no performance or band experience and together we put a band together and started playing shows. The problem is this: She has been getting attention from a couple of very so called "prominant" producers here in LA. She recorded a demo with one producer without me or any other members of the band. She HIRED people. The band got a little angry about this and confronted her. We asked her why. She said she didnt know what to do because they were brought in by the producer. She then promised that we (her band) would record the next time she was in the studio. Last night i found out that she did it again. She recorded with completely different musicians. This is my first time playing in a singer/songwriter situation and im not sure how i should feel about her using other players after we (her band) have given up so much of ourselves to support her and help structure her songs. We practice and work hard for this band and it seems like maybe she should at least TELL us that shes going in the studio? I dunno. Please share your opiinions on this? Im ready to quit her band but im just not sure if thats the right thing or not. Am i being too sensitive about this? P.S although im no Jaco, i have been playing bass for about 17 years and i dont think its my playing that prevents her from having me in the studio. Im so confused! Please help!