Yes, I know, at first I played so hard almost lost my fingers, lol, but then I read someone who said they never dig hard, bc its very tiering. At first, when you just start, I played harder to keep the rythem, like drumming I guess. But now I have a lighter touch, although I like to kick it here and there....
Its funny, I talk like I can play the bass, when I only started 3 months ago, I dont have the techniqe, but I can defenitaly feel it now, and aim for what I want it to sound and feel like, (for now, anyway,) if you know what I mean.