high tension

I was just curious what the TB community prefers in the way of string tension. I already have my preferences but don't want to sway the vote. Do you like like low tension, high or in-between? Also, please specify if you are playing fingerstyle or with a pick.

What are the highest tension strings available for a nylon tapewound set (4-string)? I like the sound of the white Labellas but they are too floppy for my taste. I seem to recall that there was at least one maker who does tapewounds over flats ( rather than rounds) - and I'm assuming those are...