Since the last big changes TB did to this site, I have lost my 'know how'/ability to manipulate/maneuver within it. So if we could start this off with you dropping me a pm, I can then reply to that and get this dialog going.
There's my problem. I use speech software (for blind folk) and since some changes TB made some months back, I've not been able to figure out how to get to and delete my messages; or make any changes in my profile stuff for that matter.