Recent content by WolfDeca

Just saw the renewed interest in the thread, and I'm happy to give you an update. It all ended a bit differently than I expected. During our band sit-down, our drummer proposed a new practice studio he could get through work, which was a great offer. The rest of the band immediately said yes...

Thanks again, everybody. I've sent the drummer a mail saying I'm pissed - and I am. It's not the attraction per se - although I'm in a long-term relationship I sure can get my head turned by a nice-looking man here and there so I get that people will be attracted - but I really dislike his...

Hey guys, Thanks for all the input. Lots of different inputs, even. Just to be clear, I wasn't in the car with him. I have been, since I'm usually the designated driver (only non-beer-lover in the gang) and his car is the only one big enough to fit his drum kit. But this time I wasn't, and...

Hi all, Long time lurker, first time poster. Need help! I'm 25 year old, female, and play bass in a band with 4 guys that are all married or in long-term relationships. I've been together with the band for 15 months, and with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years. However, yesterday the...