quitting band

Well... I finally tendered my resignation to the band. I had been weighing the decision for a while now and since we started getting even more popular and getting more and more offers to play, I just had to step aside and let them find someone who could be more available than I am. Having kids...

After 5 years I'm leaving the band for personal reasons. It's family matters and they come first. I've given ample notice since gigs are pending, but the BL is still upset with me. I understand his frustration, but i didn't just quit. I've even made my replacement up a songlist with song...