Well, I don't share your feelings! And no I don't understand! Love a bass just because I started with it? Feh. You should see the crap I started with! Join the Fender admiration society? Feh. I've got a MIM Fender Deluxe and it'd be the first thing I'd sell if I had to get rid of something! I got it for "old school" and it does that job quite nicely. But by personal preference I pick my SX over the Fender unless I really need to "show class" with tobacco sunburst, tort guard and Fender on headstock.
And the thing I REALLY don't understand is someone who can't appreciate the modern sound of Ibanez. Dude! They are the Standard for "modern" bass sounds the way Fender is the standard for "old school". OK, I don't own one, but if I were into the kind of music that needed one, I'd get one in a second rather than trying to cram some out of date Fender tone into music where it doesn't fit.
My story is that I own a nice stable of boutique basses where each one does it's thing like a miracle! Dream on kid! But one day I'm bopping into the local music store and the owner yells across the store to me; "Hey! You just GOTTA hear this bass!" It was a used Modulus TBX and indeed I DID need to hear it. I walked out of the store with it and it's been my main axe ever since. It has tone to die for, B string to die for, graphite neck never needs adjusting no matter how bad the weather and cuts the mix like a knife through hot butter...something my Fender is NEVER gonna do. You should ever be so lucky, kid.
So, do I play it for everything no matter what like Fender-lovers do? No. I use it where it fits. Did I sell all my other basses because I was in love? Do I look that dumb? Each of my basses was bought because it provided me with something special. Will I suddenly not need that because I bought something new? Hardly. I play the bass that fits the music. When it's the Fender I play it. Otherwise, I don't.
It's stories like the one in this thread that make me wonder just what is wrong inside the heads of some bass players. Does Fender sprinkle addictive substances or love potion inside their basses that makes normal bass players loose their common sense once they hold one? Inquiring minds want to know.