Thanks a lot for your help. The other thing i'm wondering about is what importance you'd give to slapping, i'm fairly accomplished in fingerstyle technique but i can't slap to save myself. The sound doesn't appeal to me at all anyway. How often do artists ask you to slap, if at all, and how much will being a non-slapper limit the gigs a bassist gets?
Thanks again for everything.
Toby
OOOOOHHH BOY!! DON'T GET ME STARTED!!!!
It will not limit the gigs you get if you don't have those skills. Period. Well, unless you want gigs playing your seven-string piece of driftwood in front of your bedroom mirror.

Go ahead. Start the attacks.
That is a preposterous exaggeration, I know. Getting real now: there are gigs for it, just not the kind I do. Guys that do Top 40 gigs, wedding gigs, lots of varied stuff need to have some of those skills. In the R&B world? Fer shizzle. Gospel? Yes. Jazz/Fusion? Yup. Guys who do clinics, sure. Guys who play the NAMM show. That stuff has it's place, and I'm just trying to outline those places.
Slapping is asked for in my world once every 100 gigs. Most producers and engineers that I know talk about slapping as a complete joke. It's bass crime #1. When a bass player busts it out between takes in a session or during a rehearsal, everybody winces and second-guesses their hiring decision. And trust me: no one that makes cool rock, alternative whatever type records cares about your slapping technique. Only in jest do they care. Even in Macy Gray/Black Eyed Peas world that I'm always operating in, slapping is a major no no.
Beck asks me to slap (read: popping one note once in a while) on a song on Midnite Vultures called Milk & Honey, but that is it...and I assure you, it is done ironically.
I've said too much already. But I am trying to be somewhat balanced, as much as I dislike slapping, especially in its modern incarnation. **
Boo yah.
JMJ
** There are exceptions to my distaste: get your mind blown by Bootsy, Anthony Jackson, Chuck Rainey (Steely Dan's "Peg"), John Taylor, Flea, Larry Graham, and probably dozens of other great, tasteful TUNEFUL guys who slap that I can't think of off the top of my head. Most of them are old school, though.