Not dead in NorCal / Redding area. My main band does Billy Joel/Elton John covers (NOT a tribute band!) and folks enjoy engaging with us. We don't play a lot of gigs, due to the fact that all the other members are in at LEAST 2 other bands. And now, I have been asked to join a start-up "Rock-n-roll" band, who is already booked at 4 places, so far. I will say, though, as [B]_Obra_[/B] mentioned, we see a lot of folks over and over and over again, out there dancing away...... and a lot of them are in their 50's, 60's and 70's. I cringe at some of their moves, as I watch them carelessly dancing, just waiting for one of them to slip and crack their skull. Actually, I've already witnessed that a couple times.
There is one popular place here in Redding, nicknamed "The Wrinkle Room". The first time I played it, I asked the guitarist why it's named that. He just looked at me and said, "Lenny, these SAME people have been coming here to dance for the last 35 or 40 years, thus the wrinkles......I'm sure you'll fit right in". Lol.
Kidding aside, there are a few places that have younger folks coming out - some of these venues are kid and dog friendly and I see parents with kiddos use this as a family thing. I like that. I also totally love watching the wee littles dancing to our music. I'm wireless, so I will go out onto the floor with them. Lotsa fun.