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Being intimate with another during your seperation

Have to agree!

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this is a hard topic to talk about... i dont even know where to begin...

my gf and i had sex with each other for the first time the other day after being with each other for 7+ months, and afterwards, everythig was great, and im talking to her on the phone today and she brings up how she enjoyed a 3 some she was in with her last bf, and wouldnt mind it again..... at this point a normal man would think "SCORE!!" but me being entierly driven by emotion, i was completely turned off and said "no" to which she replied "dont knock it till u tried it" i got turned off even more here... i said"im emotionally connected to you, not to some random who ever" i dont wanna go into some big rant here about how unstable my gf is mentally or emotionally so i'll stop here...

without going into too much detail here and derail the thread but everything is based on the people involved in the decision and the terms need to be discussed before hand. my gf's last bf didnt care if she kissed other chicks (my gf is bi) but to me a kiss is a kiss and cheating is cheating and she knows id leave...
 
While it wasnt a wife, that happened with me and my ex-gf after we broke up. You dont have to like the persons mind to like the package it comes in :p

Same thing here. For almost an entire year after we broke up. Apparently seeing me at work, talking to plenty of good looking girls made her really jealous, so she would always have me come over after we were both done work (who am I to complain?). It also didn't stop me from going out with any of those girls that I met. That was a good time :)