Hello all,
I'm realizing now that I have huge issues with pursuing things for a long time, when I am not seeing quick results. I'm really bad about expecting myself to become really good, really quickly. Maybe that's because I grew up being told by a lot of people that I was so talented, and I was going to be a virtuoso, etc., but I don't know. I really love, and care about music, but many times I have let myself become too serious, and really get frustrated with myself when I'm not improving very quickly and seeing immediate results. As many of you know, and as I am now realizing, the double bass is not an instrument that gives immediate results.
So, I want to ask how to overcome this? I think that writing down my long-term goals (and currently I don't know what those really are), and then somehow breaking them up into short-term goals would be very helpful. I think it would keep me motivated and feeling good about my progress. Now, my issue is coming up with long-term goals that are tangible. I could have goals like, "great intonation," "being able to play what's in my head," etc., but I don't know what to do with these.
I hope you all have advice. I am only 20 years old. I've been playing bass for about 2 years, but I am only recently becoming more serious, and I've been playing music (mostly piano, and acoustic guitar) since I was very young. Some days I feel extremely motivated, but others I'm so frustrated I want to quit.
I'm realizing now that I have huge issues with pursuing things for a long time, when I am not seeing quick results. I'm really bad about expecting myself to become really good, really quickly. Maybe that's because I grew up being told by a lot of people that I was so talented, and I was going to be a virtuoso, etc., but I don't know. I really love, and care about music, but many times I have let myself become too serious, and really get frustrated with myself when I'm not improving very quickly and seeing immediate results. As many of you know, and as I am now realizing, the double bass is not an instrument that gives immediate results.
So, I want to ask how to overcome this? I think that writing down my long-term goals (and currently I don't know what those really are), and then somehow breaking them up into short-term goals would be very helpful. I think it would keep me motivated and feeling good about my progress. Now, my issue is coming up with long-term goals that are tangible. I could have goals like, "great intonation," "being able to play what's in my head," etc., but I don't know what to do with these.
I hope you all have advice. I am only 20 years old. I've been playing bass for about 2 years, but I am only recently becoming more serious, and I've been playing music (mostly piano, and acoustic guitar) since I was very young. Some days I feel extremely motivated, but others I'm so frustrated I want to quit.