I wouldn't use acetone! There's a finish on the bass to think about. As for alcohol, I've never tried it. I have attempted repair on my buddy's Hamer guitar neck. He had a crack across the grain in the center lamination (the widest piece of laminate) of his neck just under the locking nut bolts. I flowed some CA into it and it seems to be holding. Not what I'd normally do but there was not a lot of choice. We wanted to try and stabilize it. Besides there were four other laminations outside of the crack to support it.
Acetone, like many things, will not effect poly. We all have used fingernail polish remover on our basses to get rid of gross old stickers, right? Well look at the ingredients on that there bottle, Acetone should be the first.
BUT, it WILL destroy Nitrocellulose. Which, Ibanez does not use (akaik).
Anyways, OP should bass slap the "friend" and have them pick up the repair and refinish bill.