The OP's story kinda reminds me of when I was an early '90s art student at trade school for cartooning, graphic design and animation. The animation teacher I was stuck with was mister "Disney is all! If you want to get work, do things their style! Everything else is inferior!". That would've been fine, if I wanted to be an animator, instead of a cartoonist/illustrator. But, like I said, I was stuck with him. All first-year students had to take animation as a part of the curriculum.
Meanwhile, I was really, REALLY big into the Japanese anime/manga style. I wanted to be on the leading edge of working that style and sensibility into the American zeitgeist, which had yet to take hold in the U.S.
Years later, whenever I see how mainstream that style is, I remember that teacher and think, "Who was ahead of their time by only a few years, jackass?!"
The big takeaway is pretty simple and, unfortunately, terribly universal; just 'cuz someone is "in charge", it doesn't necessarily make them a "leader".