I turned 50 in Oct and went through rotator cuff surgury in June. First time Ive ever had something that stopped my bassplaying cold. I've found out what alot of the other guys have....you have a better perspective on every situation then ever before, You use your time more efficiently, walk away from the crap, and cherish the joys. Im lucky in that Ive played, and continue to work with some spectacular musicians. That I find is the big difference at this age. I simply cannot "Jam for fun" with hobbyist beginners. Its about quality..and the constant search, and attainment of quality musical experiences.
Earlier this year I hooked up with a bunch of "advanced" players. they were hobbyists with chops, and skills. Just not pros. Lets say they were " outstanding mimics" of their musical idols. We played Roundabout, and Kashmir, and Highway star dead on the first time through. It was a joy. I know I couldn't speak the language of music with them due to limited knowledge of the vernacular, but they could mimic the tunes extraordinarily well. At the conclusion of the first rehearsal, we started discussing additional songlist tunes, and I was basically denied every request I made by one chap who decided he was the grand poobah. I had once again stepped into the "idiot zone". Where one snobbish idiot, that thinks he's gods gift to music because he can cover a Ritchie Blackmore lead, decides he is the unchosen leader. I called the singer a few days later and told him I could not commit. I was an easy decision. and thats the difference when you reach our age. The "no ********" factor takes presedence. Its a shame too. After the first run at " Roundabout" The keyboard player and I could not wipe the smile off our faces. We knew it sounded Killer, but the prince of fools needed to have control. So there you have it. I hope to continue having enjjoyable experiences for the next 50 years...and I wish you all the same.