I don't accept the implied premise of the question: What's wrong with accepting oneself as a musician...AND being committed to the process of continual improvement - as a musician, and as a human being?
I'm definitely not proposing that they are mutually exclusive. It just seems a little bit of a stretch to say that someone is accepting of their limitations, yet seeks to break them. I feel like if you truly accept what you can do, then there's no desire to want to change it. Change, to me, is a consequence of NOT accepting limitations, whether self-created or otherwise.
Like I stated in my second post, I want to avoid all the self helping-liners that seem to get spewed. I have my own beliefs regarding my question, but it is for this very reason that curiosity got the better of me and I wanted to hear what other people thought. I don't want to hear the politically correct "It's the journey, not destination." or " There is never an end to learning" etc. I am curious about the PERSONAL experiences that people have had trying to chase the goalposts. As awesome as it would be for everyone on Talkbass, or better yet, the world, to have absolute perseverance, I understand that that is not a reality. I think that many times, the wishful-thinking mentality drowns out the minority, and I wanted to encourage dialogue in which those who feel like they are clearly on one side or the other to share their thoughts, not regurgitations of talking points.
I'm troubled by your pessimistic framing of the issue, i.e. "eternally doomed" (drama much?), "elusive", etc.), and I really don't wish to validate it by engaging with it. I see music as a metaphor for life: If you're not progressing, you are by definition regressing - however imperceptibly.
So get hip to the way the game is played, and decide whether you want to win or lose. Either way, it's going to be a long and bumpy ride. So you might as well decide to enjoy the journey.
MM
In my first post I specifically mentioned that I wasn't being negative. If my choice of words are questionable, then ignore them and look at the content. To call out my premise on the basis of "pessimism" and and decide not to engage with it seems a little silly (though didn't you engage by posting?). As musicians one of the big things we should be striving for is not judging someone's ideas or creativity because of lack of technique. Human experience is universally understood, regardless of knowledge of grammar or vocabulary or harmonic theory.
I am "hip to the way the game is played," but this thread was for me to better learn about my fellow bass players within this community.
To those that have been truthful, thank you. Reading all these posts has been quite the experience.