Hmmm I put the finish on bare wood and the can of Minwax Poly i bought cost me $10 CDN at my local hardware store, I only put thin coats on every 2-4 hours like the can suggested. I guess its just the waiting process I have to do. Oh and its soft is what I meant by "sticky".
2-4 hours apart might be a little bit too optimistict before re-coat. Despite what the can says I like to give it a bit more than that. Temperature has a lot to do with it.
On bare wood I always wait 24 hours after the first coat to prevent trapping solvents under the finish which slows the drying process measureabley and in some case prevents it entirely.
What I'd do at this point is move the neck to a warm spot and leave it for a couple days before proceeding. Smell it from time to time. If you can still smell solvents strongly it hasn't cured.
That doesn't mean you have to wait for a full cure before re-coating, but you can't rush it either.
When you put the next coat on (after a light sanding with 400 grit) make sure the neck is warm and the spray can is too and then keep it warm until you're sure it's dry enough for another coat. 12 hours between coats is not too long. When working in hot summer weather I can get away with 4 hours between coats if they're thin enough and I don't try to build up too many at once. After 3 coats I give it at least overnight to dry before the next coats.
I used some Minwax Wipe On Poly a couple years ago on maple plywood. It was the top of a table in my basement workshop and middle of winter. The average temperature was about 65 F and I had to wait a good 12 hours before re-coating. It wasn't hard enough for use for about a week. Full cure took at least a month. It's as hard as it ever will get now though.
I'm not a big fan of polyurethane finishes and prefer a traditional alkyd varnish for fine woodwork. Poly has a few advantages such as slightly better water and chemical resistance, but it always feels a bit plasticy and rubbery to me and a little artificial looking and it won't rub out evenly to a very high gloss the way alkyd varnish will and is less resistant to UV light. But polyurethane is everywhere now and is about the only varnish most people think of when they think of varnish. Great marketing job.