I make antique reproduction furniture, not instruments, so this is where the following comes from...
- With an oil finish, there's no need to go above 800, many stop way before, as low as 320 or 400. You can actually rub the oil in with higher grits which will fill grain. Sanding too finely burnishes the grain, closing the pores, retarding the penetration of early finish coats.
- Card scrapers are fantastic, faster and and more efficient than sanding, but the sharpening and learning curve can be steep. Stick with paper if you haven't really learned to scrape. There have been demo after demo where pros can't tell the difference between a properly sanded and scraped surface once a finish has been applied. Lots of folklore there...
- Always sand with the grain.
- Use naptha or denatured alcohol and raking light to see scratches. Each grit should remove all previous scratches.
- Always use a padded backer block, such as cork, felt, or rubber behind sandpaper, not your hand. Blocks can be dowels or curved surfaces for some areas, but they still should be padded. Rubber mouse pads can be cut up for great backing material.
** The best way to learn finishing is with decent sized scraps of the original wood, prepared (sanded, scraped, oiled, or film finished) with the same steps as the project! Write every step in a notebook or on the back of the scrap. Make your mistakes on the test pieces. Once you like it, follow the same steps on the project. Save the notes and/or the successful test piece for next time. **
Have fun!