ok, so this past wednesday we were supposed to play in hollywood for our first time (as devices, my band), and my singer called that morning with a "bronchial infection". he's also the lead (we got 4 people total) g**tar. we got a limo bus, sold all our tickets and had about 30 heads rolling in from LA area. we'd been promoting for about 2 months and had been pushing it pretty hard(plus more). so i tell him to chill, tea, honey, throat spray, the whole 9..... he's kind of a p**sy some times so i figured he'd grow some nuts... not.... anyway, we cancelled and i'm kinda bent.. should i be upset or should i just go with the flow???? i have about 4 other bands having me fill in and sub some stuff, and i'm also joining another very promising local act... please do tell.. anybody have this??