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If you could change gender, would you?

I`ve always been interested in what life is like through the eyes of a girl and would be down for one of those Disney-esq change lives for a day deal, but in all honesty I doubt I`d be able to get past the whole having breasts thing before I`d even have time to go out before I`d swap back :p

Being a girl isn't that great...

You can do this. Go see a doctor about it and they can sort you out.

Hmmm....OK then!

it's called transgender, google it.

Hmmm...

i just thought to ask, would you be referring to changing Sociologically, biologically, cognitively or a combination of the three?

All three.

There is a difference between gender and sex. Sex is biological, either male or female. Gender is the behaviors and psychological factors associated with the each sex.

I think it would be a very interesting and educational experience to live life as the opposite sex for a day or so.

I know. When I say 'change sex' I also mean gender...
 
I just posed this question to a girl I know, and she was like, I'd love to be a guy! Get to pee standing up and be able to aim it, have a ding-dong, play with a ding-dong 24 hours a day, etc.

I think it's the ULTIMATE case of "The grass is always greener"

indeed. Unless, psychologically you feel you could / would be defined better in reference to your emotional self by changing gender, then sure...otherwise, I don't see the point. I have enough fun as a guy. And I don't even play with my ding dong 24 hours a day...
 
I would make an incredibly ugly woman. I'd be open to the idea of trying it out, assuming:

a) it was on a trial basis for the duration of my choosing
b) it didn't involve anything too painful
c) I could pick the body (like I said, I'd make a very ugly woman)

Seems like an interesting experiment and opportunity to grow boobies with those caveats in place.
 
not a chance. Menstrual cycles? Pregnancy? Higher chance of rape? Spending an hour every morning doing makeup? I'll pass thanks.

lol! Despite all that, I enjoy being female. I managed to avoid pregnancy. I don't bother with makeup unless I'm going somewhere special, and even then, it only takes about ten minutes. The time of the month thing can be a bit debilitating, but you get used it. It would be interesting to be in a male body for a day, just to grok that experience, but it's not something I crave. I feel fortunate to be comfortable with who I am and not to have to deal with gender identity issues. I have met several people over the years who made (or were in the process of making) the transition from one gender to the other and I admire their courage. It must be very difficult to grow up feeling like you're in the wrong body.
 
lol! Despite all that, I enjoy being female. I managed to avoid pregnancy. I don't bother with makeup unless I'm going somewhere special, and even then, it only takes about ten minutes. The time of the month thing can be a bit debilitating, but you get used it. It would be interesting to be in a male body for a day, just to grok that experience, but it's not something I crave. I feel fortunate to be comfortable with who I am and not to have to deal with gender identity issues. I have met several people over the years who made (or were in the process of making) the transition from one gender to the other and I admire their courage. It must be very difficult to grow up feeling like you're in the wrong body.

You cannot fully grok what it is to be a man in a single day.
 
You can do this. Go see a doctor about it and they can sort you out.

Yeah but I tend to agree with Trey Parker and Matt Stones outlook on this....it's bull plop. You become at best a shadow of the other gender, IMO. The differences are far more profound than surgery can account for.

If we're talking full out magical transformation then I'd love to try it for a month and get the full female experience (well to a degree). That way next time a woman complained to me about their period I could be like "yeah, not that bad, shut it"...not to mention plenty of time to get fully acquainted with the equipment and take notes and whatnot.

...I'd like to be a hot chick, who lives a better life in America when it comes down to it? but I'd rather be an ugly guy than an ugly chick any day.
 
You cannot fully grok what it is to be a man in a single day.

I love it. There's my new sig.


To the OP: I would love to truly understand what it's like to be a woman, however I quite enjoy being a guy. :0)

Kate Bush stated in an interview that the lyrics to 'Running Up That Hill' are about how much better we would all get along if women and men could swap roles for a day.

I love Kate Bush, so I just had to throw that in there. :D