Cheap, electronic starter kit.
Like I said, I'll buy a beginner cheap kit to study at home. Since I have another friend who wants to get better at drums (he's mainly a guitarist) we'll share the cost.
I'm like you and got into home recording, and I love it.
When buying a cheap e-kit, be sure to get one with a tower bass drum and pedal set up, the cheaper "self hitting" pedals are bad for developing foot technique.