I'm new to music in general and have been taking lessons for around a year, but I'm feeling like I'm not only not progressing, but that I'm more lost than ever. My very enthusiastic (25 years my junior) instructor plays well, but often uses terms that I've explained I don't understand, then spends much of the time showing me by extended examples (on my bass) that I don't understand what I'm supposed to be seeing.
My lessons are only twice/month, and I know I'm not practicing as much as I should, but in all honesty, I'm not even sure what I'm supposed to be practicing half the time. This is having the unfortunate effect of causing me to view my bass with dread! My enthusiasm is just withering away and the only thing that I can be sure of is that I feel like I'm throwing money in the wind every other Thursday.
He tells me he thinks I'm improving, but I have a constant feeling of not getting it, and just repeating the same old things... That dread causes me to not want to practice, and the cycle continues...
Should I just suck it up and practice more? Spend more time really asking questions and push even harder that I'm not understanding?
I'd like to hear some seasoned opinions. Should an instructor find a way to get through to a student? Should the student be pushing to learn more on his own regardless of the teacher? This is simply supposed to be an enjoyable hobby for me, and it's seeming less so every week.
Thoughts? And thank you! mp
My lessons are only twice/month, and I know I'm not practicing as much as I should, but in all honesty, I'm not even sure what I'm supposed to be practicing half the time. This is having the unfortunate effect of causing me to view my bass with dread! My enthusiasm is just withering away and the only thing that I can be sure of is that I feel like I'm throwing money in the wind every other Thursday.
He tells me he thinks I'm improving, but I have a constant feeling of not getting it, and just repeating the same old things... That dread causes me to not want to practice, and the cycle continues...
Should I just suck it up and practice more? Spend more time really asking questions and push even harder that I'm not understanding?
I'd like to hear some seasoned opinions. Should an instructor find a way to get through to a student? Should the student be pushing to learn more on his own regardless of the teacher? This is simply supposed to be an enjoyable hobby for me, and it's seeming less so every week.
Thoughts? And thank you! mp
