I was wondering how many other people do this. How many of you guys (and gals) on TB just let things go, even if sharing said details might help you at no cost to anyone else? Or rather, they might not so much help you, but would show an effort to help someone else understand your position. Just a brief and vague example. A few months ago I did something *really* dumb. I waited until recently to rectify that grevious error. As far as my parents know, I never made any such recent effort. I've had plenty of opportunity to explain myself, but I just...haven't bothered. I learned a while ago to let things go that I cannot change, but I think that aspect has bled a certain way into a kind of apathy towards my own concerns with my position with others. I honestly cannot recall the sheer number of times I have done this, including about 4 times last week (returning to school brings a lot of drama.) EDIT: Added italisized text.