Yeah, I'm so influential
You misunderstand. First off, everyone in the band is responsible for good time, not just the drummer. Second, I never said anything about ignoring the drummer's time. I'm just saying that for the bassist to shape his part around what the drummer is doing is the wrong direction. Has nothing to do with time, but with parts. I think the bassist needs to shape his/her part around what the main rhythmic instrument is doing, and let the drummer come to you more than coming to him. If the drummer does something cool that you want to emphasize, so be it. But if you let the drummer dictate what you do on bass, it's going to sound boring 9 times out of 10.
I really need to hear the kick drum when I'm playing or I sound like crap. Grooving, 16th notes you name it I need to hear the drum. IMO covering up the drum rhythm is never good but playing with it is. I'm not saying you can't slam a low root note when the drum kicks just not all the time I don't think unless you're going for like techno or something.
and then with others it seems effortless. I talked on the phone to the regular bassist next day (fellow TBer Slim Louis who is out on tour) and we mused about how you deal with time on those occasions. I told him I just closed my eyes played and tried to plough on, he agreeed BTW. So yeah the bass can really set the time and hope the drummer can sense the correction. But then again I que off the singer guitar player sooo to groove it's all gotta work. 