Sorry the response is long! You made good points and I wanted to address them fairly and do them justice
Ultimately, once you accept the premise that the Reapers can't be beaten in conventional combat, there's no choice but the off-button. I mean, what kind of weapon could the Crucible possibly have been? I'd love to hear your ideas on this front.
That's not really an inherit fact, since we CONFIRMED two ways to kill Reapers (Thresher Maw and with enough firepower spit out by the Quarians). There were "upgrades" you could discover for the crucible such as things like "dark matter missiles" which led me to believe it was in fact a weapon. This along with other things seems out of place or pointless given how it is used in the game. The direction seemed to be the battering ram that takes down the impenetrable fortress, a completely plausible plot point. Your crew got resourceful concerning the Collectors in ME2, so we can see that galactic unity is a force to be reckoned with. Where arrogance was what made the Protheans fail, and possibly the other past races, we saw the unity of all the races proving that organic life isn't doomed to failure at all.
The whole idea of "control" expounded upon by the Catalyst wasn't extermination from its perspective. Think of the "inevitable" conflict between synthetics & organics OR created & creators as a zero-sum game. Mutually assured destruction - similar to nuclear proliferation in the Cold War. The Reapers assumed themselves to be the pinnacle of existence. In their eyes, they are doing the organic species a favor by harvesting their genetic material and creating new Reapers. Instead of a slow death by entropy, species can live forever in the form of a god-like machine. The motivations of the Catalyst are necessarily obscure to us because it and the Reapers are wholly distinct forms of life, unconcerned by any of the imperatives that motivate organic species.
I think it's implied who or whatever actually created the first Reaper(s) has long since ceased to exist. The Catalyst essentially serves as the Reapers' equivalent of Vigil, the Prothean VI on Ilos.
They were, however, still subject to what their creators designed them and commanded them to do. They detested and forbade the Geth from worshiping them as gods, because it's not what they are...they are a tool meant to carry out a pre-programmed purpose. Basically, they are the genocidal and unfriendly version of Wall-E, left only to perform their task until their destruction. The peace between Geth and Quarians proves that synthetics and organics can live in peace together.
It could be speculated, but this is, again, another plot hole that should not be left open. Were they destroyed by the Reapers? Why would they create, knowingly, something that would turn on them in theory? Did they become the Reapers? Why would they "create" a weapon such as the Crucible to facilitate their own destruction? I go back to my theme of unity, where all other races failed to create it in time, our unity caused it to be a success. One could even say this was the whole
purpose of the Reapers to begin with...exterminating intelligent life until they can learn to unite. This would not be a fairy tale plot point or out of the realm of possibility in the ME universe.
I think the Mass Relays needed to go - along with the Citadel. They were the legacy of the Reapers. When you think about it, they were essentially tools of genocide in use for 1,000,000,000 years. The fact that most of the people in galaxy survived leads me to the conclusion that those survivors would eventually be able to replicate the technology (as the Protheans did) in their own fashion.
With the mass relays gone, all life other than those on the Normandy are destroyed. Earth was in shambles and you had FLEETS of various alien life stranded there...that spells death pretty much any way you slice it. Since they were unable to create mass relays, starvation and war due to no resources would entail an end to all that fought to liberate the galaxy. Sorry to sound like a pansy, but screw that...they did their part and deserve life for what they all sacrificed to win. I don't recall Protheans making mass relays, the Reapers said they (more likely their creators) made them.
We're all going to die eventually. Does that mean that the events in our lives mean nothing because they inexorably lead to the same outcome?
I don't think it does. I feel the same way about this game.
I'd have loved to have been indulged with sunshine and rainbows at the end of a full-on Paragon career. But my philosophy (in real life) is such that I believe that the "good life" is its own reward. I don't need my choices to be validated by the carrot at the end of the stick.
Fair enough, but I (and a fair chunk of people) usually play a game to escape reality...Mass Effect series felt like a great way to do so since your decisions impacted so much and you were the hero without fail. Cinema portrays real life from a variety of perspectives, video games are where most people get to be something great and near invincible.
Doesn't even have to be sunshine and rainbows, but something that felt like more than a weak M. Knight twist meant to try and spin you on your head. I feel like Shepherd sacrificing his life to save everyone was suitable and totally acceptable...but it seemed as though it was a pointless notion. I don't even see how control is a paragon ending...the hero saves the day by holding the Reapers' leash? IMO, Paragon should have been "destroy" where Shepherd sacrifices his life to keep the mass relays in tact and ensure the other races can leave safely. Control seemed more like a renegade option, where Shepherd falls subject to the temptation of holding a power like that like Illusive Man.
All of these qualities are readily apparent in all of our own deities, especially in the Greek and Roman pantheons. They're immortal, their creations dictate the course of mortal lives, and they had successfully killed or subjugated every intelligent being in the galaxy every 50,000 years
for at least 1 billion years running.
Reapers
were created though, and we know this from the ME3 ending. Something created had a creator and they were not accounted for in the ending. It seemed like a poorly altered deus ex machina ending imo. I would still have liked to wage war on the creators or possibly have entered some type of intergalactic effort with
other galaxies to take out the creators of the Reapers. This would also be a neat opportunity to pull the crucible into combat again! Unity, again, could save the day!
