I think 1 & 3 is just fine. I also like it there for faster tempos. I also tap my foot on 1 & 3 as did many great time players like Herb Ellis. He explained to me that tapping on 1 & 3 is grounded in the bass drum and the high hat is 2 & 4.
As always, Lynn, good advice. Another practice technique I use for fast tempi is dividing the tempo by 4. i.e., if the tempo you want to practice is quarter note = 280, then set the metronome on 70, and hear the click as being on beat 4. You know... "1, 2, 3, CLICK, 1, 2, 3, CLICK"... it take a little getting used to, but I found that by having the metronome play less frequently it becomes more of a "time check" than a time keeper; it makes ME more responsible for keeping time rather than it keeping time for me. Additionally, with it set on beat 4, it's reminiscent of the snare rim-click often used in up tunes.. you know, when the drummer plays two eighth notes on the tom on "2 and," then a click on 4 on the snare. I don't know.. something like that. The metronome on JUST 4 for fast tunes just feels more right than that constant 2,4,2,4,2,4,2,4 frantic clicking away. If you're having trouble keeping time for more than a few measures, then Lynn's method is dead on.. put it on 1,3 and hold tempo till it's pretty effortless.
O' course, I'm a piano player, primarily... <grin>.. what the heck do I know!
Nice to see your writing here, Lynn. I don't expect you to remember me.. we did a brief 4 day tour years ago w/ the "International Art of Jazz." My friend Tom Melito was the drummer and I filled in on piano at the last minute. Those four days spent playing with you were one of the musical highlights of my life.. thanks for the inspiration!
Barry Blumenthal