You're right... It's just observation...
Have you seen a bass develop a bow and become useless just because someone switched from 040 to 045 strings? I have... Should that happen on a brand bass? No, but it still happens...
Alex, I understand what you are saying, and no, I've never seen that happen- if it did I would be in massive suspect of the materials, not just a switch in string gauge.
A good friend of mine, Bob DeGeorge (plays with the Spinners and other Motown groups and I think he's on TB, but not often) has one of the, literally one of the very first 55-02's. He worked at Low Down Sound when the Skykine stuff first came out and Dan sent him one of the first..anyway, not only does he use heavy gauge strings (I think the Jamerson flats but with an added low B), his action is pretty damn high- to the point I don't think I would survive a set on that bass (I'll say this, I'm convinced it's US made- it's perfect in every way)
Bob is like 6'5 280- a stinkin' huge guy with hands like a Buick, so it works for him- and he travels the counrty with the Spinners as well.
With that same bass to this day.
And again, zero issues.
After 26 years of playing, the only basses I've had with neck issue of any sort were the Warwick I mentioned and my 70's Jazz- which are nortoriously know for crap necks due to sub-par materials used at times.
If a truss rod is working properly, then you can jack up the action and use heavy arse strings and it should be fine.
Hell, my 65 Hofner Club Bass with flats and high action sat for god knows how long in my Grandmothers garage before I got it.
It had a seriously bad bow in the neck, and the action is pretty high, but some adjusting and the neck is pretty flat with just a bit of relief.